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    maskingmark reacted to AznMunky in [12.07.31] T-ara's largest fansite, T-araDotCom closing down   
    so like... i decided that im acutally going to buy their Mirage album instead of downloading it.... yup..i actually have enough money...
    it seems as though most people here on Tiaradiadem will stand by T-ara.
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    maskingmark reacted to Grimlock in [12.07.31] T-ara's largest fansite, T-araDotCom closing down   
    Controvery or not. I still call myself a T-ara fan. I've always said it was tough being a T-ara fan. Now is no different,
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    maskingmark got a reaction from Kerotan in [12.07.31] T-ara's agency, "We will take legal action against creators of back-up dancer and trainee posts"   
    true i will not deny that. however if it was only initially it is understandable. i am no saint who loves everyone. if someone joined suddenly i cannot accept that person right away. Ifanyone claims to be a pure person who is capable of loving and accepting everyone, then i would not believe that as well. If you say that this has been going on for 2 years, then i cannot aggree with that without concrete proof.
    if you are claiming that ignoring and not acknowledging was going on as well that i cant agree to that as well.
    at most what might have happened is minimal talk and interactions only during work times maybe. if you are in a workplace and you do not like your coworker, do you take him out as well on top of work. if someone suddenly joined when you did not want any new person to come would you take that person in immediatly would you not get to know the person slowly thorgh interaction before finally accepting that person. i mean is this bullying i wonder
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    maskingmark got a reaction from Faedra in [12.07.31] T-ara's agency, "We will take legal action against creators of back-up dancer and trainee posts"   
    us screeming for his head will not make anything better
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    maskingmark reacted to chloeownsyou in [12.07.30] Kim Kwangsoo, "There is a possibility for Hwayoung to re-join.."   
    I must say that I am actually a pretty new fan of T-ara. I didn't like them 3years ago when they first debuted. In fact, I don't even know their existence and neither was I bothered in knowing Korean Girl Groups. I always have the impression that they are all plastic and mass-produced to feed the insatiable demand of the commercialized industry. Somehow or rather, I got to like T-ara in late September/October last year. I guess I could attribute this to their constant luck in having hits after hits. I went to Google on them, Youtube their interviews, reality shows, performances, videos, variety shows, talk shows, their songs…and whatever you can name of. I behaved just like how a typical fanatic will craze over their idols. Despite knowing them relatively late, I felt so interested in them that I wanted to know more about them in "real life". Watching their live song performances is just their on screen persona. It was never enough. So I backtracked and I watched Tara Dotcom, Hello Baby and Dream Girls. I even watched Invincible Youth starring only Hyomin, despite my bias being Soyeon. Honestly speaking, I believe people are nice and kindhearted in general. From everything I have known, seen and read on T-ara before all these hooha, I can see how hardworking the girls are, always trying to deliver and show the best of T-ara to people. This is their career, and no doubt they put in so much effort to gain fame and popularity. The entertain industry is dynamic and competitive. Which singer doesn't want to have a stable career and to be loved by fans and people-alike all around the world. From the start when T-ara is supposed to be a 5-member cast, 2 members dropped out, replacing with Soyeon, Boram and Qri. Hyomin, Jiyeon and Eunjung are the ones who are really closely knitted in my opinion. Since they are rightfully the original T-ara. It can be seen easily through their twitter conversation and the most recent star life theatre when the three had a meal together. I am alway jealous how the three of them can be so close to one another. And I wish that all of them are as close to each other. But I also understand that it is inevitable to have cliques in a group. It happens in real life, in our own lives as well. Not to say celebrities, especially in Girl Groups when people have to really stand out or they will just "die off" in this materialistic entertainment industry. Probably everything could have been all well and good, if not for the poor management of the company handling them. It really saddens me whenever the company does certain things that are beyond my understanding towards T-ara. I believe from the start, a group should be a group. Since T-ara debuted with 6 members - Soyeon, Boram, Qri, Hyomin, Jiyeon and Eunjung - they should just let it be. Because they all started out from point Zero, they have sticked through thick and thin together as a group to achieve whatever status they have. And I believe all these hardships are best felt by the 6 of them, who really struggled to shine in this industry. The decision by the company to add new members does not justify all the efforts that has been put in by the 6 of them. Even though I began to like T-ara when they are 7 members, I believe that even with 6, they can do as well. Because judging from their past albums, I actually liked them more. Even though I must admit that Hwayoung did have contributions to the group as well. The Black Eyes album was great, Lovey Dovey was fantastic, and what more is there to say. Hwayoung has proved her worth to be in this group. Honestly speaking, the idea to add in two more person into the group is downright stupid. I believe it wasn't easy for the 6 of them to open up to Hwayoung and treat her as their own. Nobody in the right frame of mind will be willing to share what they have build over the years, with their own blood and sweat. Why will somebody who did not fight as hard as we had before, join in to share what we've already achieved? I believe at the beginning it will not be easy to accept a new member. We humans are not receptive to new changes sometimes. We are flawed as well. We have our seven sins. We get jealous, we get frustrated, we have emotions. I can understand if Hwayoung has a rocky start in adapting to 6-ara. But I believe over time, having gone through thick and thin with the rest for the next 20months, relationships ought to get better. We are not talking about 20 hours, 20 days or 20 weeks. It is 20 months. And in that 20 months, fantastic albums like Temptastic, John Travolta Wannabe, Black Eyes, Funky Town are produced. And honestly speaking, these albums produced hits after hits, and I strongly believe they helped to build on T-ara's stardom. 7-ara is perfect. Areum and Dani should have never come into picture. If people are saying Hwayoung is bullied, isn't it stupid to add in another two more new members when their fate will more or less be the same since the 6-ara are the "culprits" in question? If 6-ara is unable to accept Hwayoung even after 20 months, why would anybody think they can accept Areum or even Dani readily? And back to the mind games again, the 6 girls will be feeling even more unjustified when 2 more people are coming in to get a free ride on their stardom they've build up. Any normal human beings will be unhappy. The management company constantly threatens their T-ara member statuses with addition of new members, who seems to be a danger to them because they can get replaced anytime. On top of their already packed and tight schedule, I think they are being pushed over and are like damsels in distress, with no retaliating power. Moreover with that little sleep a day, no human beings will be in the right state of mind to think things through. When they have to constantly worry about being replaced, yet still having to put in their 100% in whatever they do, not knowing if whatever they put in is for their own future or helping to pave ways for others. Doesn't really seem rational and logical. It all boils down to how poor management can make or break a person. Maybe that is the stress of a celebrity, for fame and for money. But I don't think it is right for a company to put their subjects through constant worry of being employed or fired. Even when we're no celebrities, we also get selfish at times don't we. We are afraid of people doing better than us, outperforming us, replacing us in our own job/job scope. Every human beings have survival instincts. It is not the issue to dig out what is right or what is wrong. Everybody will have their ups and downs in life. To be able to ride through obstacles, and emerge stronger than before is what matters. Everybody makes mistakes, and everybody learns from mistakes. The worse thing is to make mistakes and never admit, and still continuing making mistakes. I hope as a greater human being, people learn to make judgements based on what their heart tells them, and not be clouded and wavered by rife speculations. The problem with human beings sometimes is we are too nosey in everything. Even though we are the outsiders, we try to act like we are insiders and know-it-all. Sometimes, what is destructive is not the existing problem itself, but the domino effect the problem has created ):
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    maskingmark reacted to itoko in [12.07.30] Kim Kwangsoo, "There is a possibility for Hwayoung to re-join.."   
    I agree with T-GGYouth in that in this situation we really won't ever know who is right and who is wrong you might find even if both sides told the truth you might find its a difference of views and both parties can be innocent and both parties could be at fault.
    My first opinion of the whole situation is that both sides are at fault in that I believe that Hwayoung was hurt and she couldn't perform but decided to try but in the end couldn't but that in turn made it burdensome for the 6-ara since they were given such short notice that they end up not performing up to there own standard and this in turn made the 6-ara members upset and they tweeted there disappointment in Hwayoung publicly. This lead to sh*tstorm that we have today.
    People who say that the 6-ara was bullying Hwayoung where is the proof? The only things that seem to float around is the cut of variety shows like the bowling alley, umbrella, rice cake, book in car and tweets but if you watch those incidents entirely you'll find there's nothing to them.
    I get the impression that 6-ara aren't as close to Hwayoung as each other but you have to remember also that Hwayoung never had to claw her way to the top she joined t-ara when they had become pretty famous and she was sharing in the profit so of course the other members never got close to her but not being close doesn't mean they are bullying her.
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    maskingmark reacted to T-GGYouth in [12.07.30] Kim Kwangsoo, "There is a possibility for Hwayoung to re-join.."   
    okay honestly this is getting too far.
    towards this case, though as shown the victim is Hwayoung, we're just outsiders and as fans/people who suddenly care about t-ara once this thing came up, we do NOT know anything about the truth.
    so let's see:
    If Hwayoung was really bullied by the other members
    Okay so assuming the other members are evil "bitches" like those people claim, I still don't get the whole story. tbh, who insults/bullies with 'fighting!' and '^^' lol. And besides, why would they want to publicize the fact they're bullying? It's the same as wanting to kill someone, and yet you go to the most crowded place of the country and using a loud speaker say "I'M GONNA KILL BLAHBLAHBLAH AT <TIME> AT <PLACE>." Like, just what in the world would they do that? At this point of time, they just came back, and their popularity is high, they are almost at the peak of their career. Why would they want to destroy this moment? Revealing that they bullied at this point of time just does NOT make sense at all.
    Also I remember from IY that Sunny said that Hyomin was actually introverted and that if you treat her nice she'll treat you nicely. So if she really treats Hwayoung this way, wouldn't there be a reason for it? like her changed dp said, "everything happens for a reason." Same for other members
    Hwayoung is the one in the wrong
    So now, assuming that Hwayoung did T-ara wrong. We all know that CCM has 'revealed Hwayoung's dark side'. I personally don't believe it. Maybe Hwayoung might have indeed done something to T-ara, but as for the 'throwing away her crutches and sitting on the floor, threatening to shout at the managers' part, if it was really done by her, wouldn't the fans and reporters have ' D: - ed' and the news would have been circulating all around the internet.
    Okay so to sum up, I personally think Hwayoung, 6-ara (minus Qri), KKS and the netizens are all at fault.
    Why Hwayoung? She could have cleared things up, but her tweets just made things worse. Doesn't this show that she doesn't really care for T-ara too.. but then again, maybe she was really hurt, so I guess she is like, pretty much not that much at fault? Unless she was the one who did T-ara wrong.
    Why 6-ara - Qri? Maybe they shouldn't have expressed their feelings on Twitter. Whatever they were referring to, they shouldn't post anything that might be incorrectly interpreted by people. Yes, what people post on Twitter is their own business, but as idols and with those netizens around, I'm afraid they can't. And they would be at fault if they really bully Hwayoung.
    Why KKS? Needless to say, KKS has poor planning. He can't handle things well. Taking two days to solve this can cause a lot of damage to T-ara. His sole money maker is able to just die because of this. Really pity T-ara for this. Not gonna elaborate on KKS, he simply sucks I would say. And kicking Hwayoung out then wanting Hwayoung to apologize then come back is just crap. Be it the kicking her out part or wanting her to apologize, even if she was at fault, this would just cause even more harm to T-ara.
    Okay lastly the netizens, this whole thing is blown out of proportion by them. Maybe nothing would have been wrong if not for them. and they are unreasonable, esp the one saying that hyomin accidentally/purposely hit hwayoung WHEN RIGHT IN THE VIDEO HYOMIN HUGGED HWAYOUNG AND SAID SORRY. and the one of boram breaking the umbrella, hmm interesting. she didn't smash the whole umbrella right...
    KKS is making like the staff members want Hwayoung to leave but the T-ara members want her to stay. IDK what's true now, everything is just so complicated and confusing. but now we know, his major announcements are always negative. Maybe if T-ara was under another company things would have been better. Or if they debuted with a graduation concept like After School.
    Nonetheless, as QUEEN'S, though it's kinda tough yet exciting to be one, we should support them. Whatever Hwayoung does, it doesn't change the fact she was from T-ara, and so we should support her in what she does. For the T-ara girls, we should support them too. I believe this might be their hardest time of their career, and they might be really hurt by the antis.
    Until we know exactly who's at fault, let's not take sides and support them all. Only if proven that <whoever> is at fault should we take sides. Let's just protect our girls.
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    maskingmark got a reaction from binnie80 in [12.07.30] T-ara Eunjung's "Five Fingers" role is in jeopardy   
    what the hell is going on,. first someone posts that they will not remove her. then a completly different person posts that they might.
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    maskingmark got a reaction from KiwiJIYEON in [12.07.30] Kim Kwangsoo, "There is a possibility for Hwayoung to re-join.."   
    ive forgotten the number of comments i have made regarding this but please drop the bully thing......
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    maskingmark reacted to nur hidayah abdullah in [12.07.30] Kim Kwangsoo, "There is a possibility for Hwayoung to re-join.."   
    KKs please don't make any mess anymore. i hope t-ara will be together again and they will do a press to explain everything. so all this mess will be clear and t-ara can start their life like usual as before. no more people bash them like now. both of them t-ara and hwayoung should apologies to fans and to each other. fair and square. no matter they are right or wrong.
    i hope what i'm saying didn't hurt anybody. just my thought..
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    maskingmark got a reaction from aqua_ei792 in [12.07.30] SBS "Five Fingers" staff, "Regardless of T-ara's issues, Eunjung is not being replaced"   
    im crying right now ..... it is like a weight has been lifted
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    maskingmark got a reaction from jknlet in [12.07.30] SBS "Five Fingers" staff, "Regardless of T-ara's issues, Eunjung is not being replaced"   
    im crying right now ..... it is like a weight has been lifted
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    maskingmark got a reaction from jyuanzhe in [12.07.30] SBS PD's controversial statement, "I won't reach out to T-ara in the future"   
    i hope we are not seeing the start of a war in general in k entertainment. these posts can quickly lead to something else entirly.
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    maskingmark got a reaction from mae_ash in [12.07.30] SBS "Five Fingers" staff, "Regardless of T-ara's issues, Eunjung is not being replaced"   
    im crying right now ..... it is like a weight has been lifted
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    maskingmark got a reaction from Grimlock in [12.07. 30] T-ara's agency "Hwayoung, refused to perform during a live show, 'I can't go on stage.'"   
    tough i agree with you on the upset part if i think it was aimed at me, it was highly unprofessional to do it on the music bank wiht 2 groups to go. She should not have rehersed in the first place if that was so. It would have sent a stronger signal. To reherse and then say im not going is not right. Besides right now i have no clue what is right and what is wrong.
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    maskingmark got a reaction from mizzNovember22 in [12.07.30] SBS "Five Fingers" staff, "Regardless of T-ara's issues, Eunjung is not being replaced"   
    im crying right now ..... it is like a weight has been lifted
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    maskingmark got a reaction from HannaLei in [12.07.30] SBS "Five Fingers" staff, "Regardless of T-ara's issues, Eunjung is not being replaced"   
    im crying right now ..... it is like a weight has been lifted
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    maskingmark got a reaction from cruzer1979 in [12.07.30] SBS "Five Fingers" staff, "Regardless of T-ara's issues, Eunjung is not being replaced"   
    im crying right now ..... it is like a weight has been lifted
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    maskingmark got a reaction from TSC1981 in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    the problem is that if hwayoung speaks up then it is nice . im sure shell gain more goodie points. but what will employers who might take her in think. Would they take her in if she blurts out too much information. would they not think that this might happen to them too with another scandle.
    these are just thoughts. thoughts that another organisation might have in taking her in. its not just about skills and fans. im sure they might do a risk assesment as well. what do you all think about this
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    maskingmark got a reaction from Farnaz in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    I apologize for for using caps. I know people dont like this but
    CAN WE PLEASE STOP TAKING SIDES OVER HERE.
    it is bad enough that the whole web is. I dont want to see this place ripped apart as well
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    maskingmark got a reaction from Farnaz in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    Somebody give this person a cookie. a really big delicious one
    Thank you for thinking about only one person and the company and not about the entire 9 members. boy what a queen
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    maskingmark got a reaction from Seorori in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    Somebody give this person a cookie. a really big delicious one
    Thank you for thinking about only one person and the company and not about the entire 9 members. boy what a queen
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    maskingmark got a reaction from BeautifulRobot in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    Do we really have to fight over who is best. DO we? (for the record i diagree with you) .
    I am more concerned is not why hwayoung was kicked out but how this will affect all the 9 girls. shakess head
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    maskingmark got a reaction from BeautifulRobot in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    I posted this before and ill post this again. Hwayoung will gain nothing but benifit from this. she leaves with her reputaion in the eyes of many ppl intact. The others with the exception of qri just got theirs dragged through the mud. i do not hate hwayoung. in fact i recognize her as a damn good rapper and want to see her succeed.
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    maskingmark got a reaction from mizzNovember22 in [12.07.30] T-ara's CEO, "Hwayoung's contract has been terminated"   
    the funny thing is it does not adress the main point.. this is just adding more fuel to the fire
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