nicole_a22mo

there is more than one perspective which i kindly pointed out. there are people out there like me, who take a degree of offense to being pitied or something.

so if you want to respect the families, respect them all. not just one. but pleasing everyone is next to impossible isnt it?
if anything, you could put a disclaimer on the video. or make a censored version.

i know this incident isnt about me, i never said it was. but there was a time it was about me (so they said) as i was one of the families they thought they were respecting. i was just sharing a similar experience. not everyone needs or wants to be protected. dont tell me what i should or shouldnt see and use my deceased family as an excuse why. thats my perspective and im sure there are many others who have the same one as me. i know that perspective isnt the only one. it may not be the most popular either. but that doesnt mean it is any more or less important than any other.

sorry if i was misunderstood. i did not mean to sound disrespectful. i did not wish to argue with anyone either. not fellow t-ara fans and not over a tragedy.

@Collar I gotta say I agree with you in parts, and completely agree with Nicole.

I wouldn't mind at all the scenes if I were one of the family that lost someone there, I would also think/say "hey, you don't need to do that for me, you've worked so hard on those"... but the thing is, it's not only about how we cope with those feelings, people out there may feel very differently and this MUST be taken into consideration, making them remind the tragedy now (or in a near future) is just disrespectful imo... you see, poking a scar differ considerably from poking an open wound.

i never understood this sort of thing. how is someone dumping water on themselves controversial. i dont see how it relates to anything.
yes i understand there was a tragedy in south korea. its a horrible event. my thoughts and prayers to everyone.
but even so. i remember when i lost family when the world trade centers collapsed on 9/11. and they did the same thing back then. they removed songs from air waves that may "remind" people of that event. they removed the twin towers from the spider man trailers at the time. (just throwing an example out there)
none of it bothered me. none of those images made me feel bad. because if you live through something like that, its always going to be with you. whether you see it on TV (anywhere) or hear about it. and you cant hide from those things. you cant live the rest of your life hiding from images or things related to that event.
i understand the mindset to be respectful, but really, you putting all that effort into protecting me from seeing and hearing things you thought i wouldnt want to see or hear, didnt help me at all. just because i didnt see the twin towers in a spider man movie didnt make me forget. just like seeing the twin towers in a picture i have in my house didnt make me break down in anxiety either.

thank you for the thought, but you know, just not worth the effort. you spent all that time working hard on your art. i say keep it in. dont ruin your work because of me. dont let me be the reason you cripple your work. if anything its offensive to me, to say im the reason you changed your art.

just another perspective to take into account.

and i dont understand why this article is so cryptic. just say who it is.

OMG I almost fell off my chair >w< Jiyeonie you have grown up very well, It feels like it was yesterday when she was only 16 years old x3
I like all members but lately I have stuck my eyes on her haha