Well, it's not just about you. It's about us and Jiyeon as well, it's about everyone who thinks about it. It's to show respect. They're idols, they can't just say "Who cares about you and your tragedy? I'll just do my things!" No, obviously they can't do that. It's just not the victims families who would judge Jiyeon, the media would, the netizens would, the whole country would (oy you already know how crazy some people are). Even us fans would. And I believe Jiyeon herself would think about it. Nobody would care whether it was intentional or not if it came out that way and the only one who would suffer from such judgement would be Jiyeon, not you. So, it's to protect Jiyeon as well.